Please post your favorite memories of Justin, or any other relevant information you’d like to share. Thank you.
–The Wolfe Family
Please post your favorite memories of Justin, or any other relevant information you’d like to share. Thank you.
–The Wolfe Family
Gregg….I called you last year and can’t help but think of you at this time this year. I Just found this wonderful site today, 6/18/14, and had to leave you a message. I can only imagine your pain. My heart goes out to you still. I will never forget the kindness you showed me. I wanted to thank you for being you and for helping so many people in so many ways. You are an amazing guy. I hope you are doing well.
Warmest of wishes to you and your family. Terry
I am sorry to hear of your lose…I lost my bright creative daughter in June 5th 2010.
The health information law should have no age limit as far as addiction goes.My daughter had a young son, the father was also an addict..recovery..who knows.
We tried to get custody of him…the Judge..talked attorney Liam…twice..two hears…but gave the child to his father, along with all the financial benefits of SS, she also had a pension,and 100,000 $ life insurance policy..I have here W2..last year before her death she had earned $130,000 working in an international busness.You can guess who.
We do get to see our grandchild .He has missed many opportunities,normal after school activities.
Your Right when you call it a Big Secret.
There is a lot More I could share.
One thing we have in common, is the pain of losing a child..I feel the lose of our grandchild as well.
I work everyday to have a Happy Life…that is what our grandchild told us he wanted after his mother died.
He suffers too; PTSD..we take him to therapy when his father allows it.
I tied, we tried to help our daughter too.But lies, secrets…the drug steals the life..
You may want to edit out my name .or email me priviite .
It has been five years…in just a few days..my heat is broken…grieve..leaks out as I try to live a Happy Life.tears fall …you know …
Thank you for sharing…it is lonely. But …more parents ,children are going through this Drug Problem.
Sincerely
Janis Ripple
Michigan
Ps this has a lot of personal info so edit it.Please
I did not know Justin personally, but I am friendly with many of the brother from Alpha Epsilon Pi at Temple and am a brother at the Drexel Chapter.
I just wanted to say that your son will be remembered fondly. The stories I heard from the guys at Temple allowed me to understand just how much light he brought the lives of the people around him.
Raeli, thank you very much for your kind comments. Justin had a wonderful spirit for life, fun and loved everyone around him. He is terribly missed and will always be loved. I appreciate you reaching out to us regarding your thoughts, Gregg
Gregg,
I am so sorry to hear about your son. What a tremendous loss.Your fight to change the HIPAA laws is courageous, and will help save lives. I wish you all the best in your fight for positive change!
-Amanda (George’s niece)
Amanda, thank you for your encouraging words. Most of all, thank you for being there for George during this terrible time in his fight for his life. Having two beautiful children yourself, I am sure you and others can appreciate not only the devastation, but the work that needs to be accomplished to prevent other lives from being taken unnecessarily.
Gregg
Uncle George deserves the best, and if keeping him company can bring him some happiness, I am more than happy to be by his side as much as I can. He is loved tremendously and it is the least that I can do.
Dear Gregg and Austin,
Justin would be very proud, as am I, of all the work you are doing to change the HIPPA law, hopefully preventing further tragedies, keeping his name alive, and honoring his memory.. You have created a beautiful web site and brought much needed attention to this devastating disease in your quest to save others. The love and pride I feel for my Justin is imbedded in my heart, like all the happy memories, never to be forgotten, and the pain of his loss will live with me forever. We must be strong….he would want it that way. He IS with us now and for always.
Until we meet our precious angel again, love always,
Mom/Bubby
Thank you, Mom, for always being there, giving advice and helping during difficult times. I have to remain strong now for my family and to assist other people not only in the education of this drug which is taking so many lives, but to change the legislation regarding the HIPAA standards for those with mental disorders and addictions. I will continue to fight not only to honor Justin and in his memory, but so that more tragedies are not befallen upon those with illness.
Justin’s been in my dreams a lot recently. But the one that really got me was the one I had last night. I was sitting on the beach and I heard someone walking up behind me. I turned around and saw him, standing there in all white smiling at me. I immediately stood up in disbelief but so relieved at the same time. He sat down and told me he missed me and whenever I’m l feeling sad or don’t have anybody to talk to, no matter where I am he will always be with me. The last thing he said was I’ll always love you, and he hugged me, but when I hugged back he disappeared. I do believe he is still here with us every day. I miss him more each day but I know he’s always in my heart and forever will me on my mind. He is a person who you truly cannot replace nor forget.
Dear Cousin Gregg, Austin, family, friends, sorority brothers…you have risen above some of your grief and executed so eloquently the need for HIPAA changes through your experiences with our loved one, Justin and his personal fight with addiction amongst his personal stamp on our world. Your resourcefulness through accessing various mediums from the internet (this website), through television interviews to nourishing established organizations that deal with addiction through fundraising takes a lot of chutzpah (courage) and persistence in the face of any obstacles.
There was a time that I became aware of younger brother Austin’s and other’s struggle with juvenile diabetes, and once again, everyone involved, has and continue to prove that your screams for change can not be squashed by red tape. Justin’s memory lives on in all the memories you hold dearly along with the advocacy work. Please don’t forget that while you nourish the world around us with your knowledge, you must be still and know that as you continue this journey, you also need the time to close your eyes, feed your body and your spirit with all that IS good in this life. We hear you….your story is a piece of the puzzle that some will not struggle to put together because you’ve given them an advantage through your shared knowledge…they can see what needs to fit where in order that the puzzle becomes more complete. So much of love is with you. Amy
Amy, what you have written and expressed from your heart could not be better said, as everything is right on point, true and emotionally filled verbiage. The support and love which you have shown is tremendous, and I hope and wish that everyone that views this site not only heeds the many warnings and take action, but to see the love and support which so many like yourself has put into words.
Your love, along with everyone else is what has gotten me through this devastating time of my life. I can never recapture Justin, but am hoping to capture the lives of others following in a similar pattern.
Thank you, Cuz
Gregg,
You are doing such a phenomenal job lobbying on the HIPAA issues. This website is wonderful and will help save lives and prevent tragedies on this epidemic that’s so hidden. Your positive energy, focus and commitment just shows the true love you have for Justin and what a tremendous and compassionate human being you are!.
We both love you.
Gary and Lori
Gary and Lori, I can’t thank you enough for everything you have done for me and my family. You were one of the first to arrive that fateful morning, and I will never forget your love, support and devoted giving at a time where my life was in shambles. You both were there when I needed you the most, to hold me up and to steer me in the right direction, keeping me focused. At a moment’s notice, you dropped everything to be by my side. I will never forget that as long as I live. Thank you for supporting me in my fight to change the HIPAA law to protect others. We will all miss Justin forever.
First, I would like to express my extreme condolences for the loss of your son Justin. I went to high school with your son and graduated from eastern high the same year in 2009. Although Justin and I weren’t close, I thought highly of him and we knew each other. My name is Jackson Horowitz of Voorhees, and I think it is wonderful what you are doing to try to have HIPPA’s Laws changed, especially after reading your article about how you discovered the real problem Justin was dealing with, and how HIPPA prevented you from legally doing anything about it. As a recovering Heroin Addict, a son, and a parent to a wonderful two year old, I firmly believe someone needs to take action and do something to save people from this horrible thing, and changing the privacy laws of HIPPA would by far be a first step in the right direction, likely sparing countless to a fate that only ends in one of three ways, jails, institutions, and death. I wanted to share with you my support, and my own personal story. I consider myself to be “a survivor,” of this devastating disease. I like many, began to mildly to wildly party as a highschooler, with the typical alcohol and marijuana using, which progressed gradually, and got to the opiate class of drugs. These started off as Percocet and Roxicodone when I was 19 and a sophomore in college, and had a major negative impact on my life, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Extremely distraught, I tried to tell my parents what I was going through, but was terrified of what telling them would do to them, as I thought it would destroy them. Finally, I called them from my apartment in northern new jersey and told them I needed help and that I was addicted to at the time Roxicodone badly. I told them I was going into an inpatient rehabilitation center in Princeton new jersey, The Princeton House, and that I was taking a medical leave of absence from college and asked them to help support my son’s mother and my son. I completed 13 days of detox/rehab there, and stayed sober for 2 months. It was then that I discovered Heroin, as my son’s mother also had an opiate addiction, but she claimed to me that she “beat it cold turkey when I was in rehab.” She secretly progressed to heroin, and I followed down her footsteps. This is now the beginning of April 2012, I began making daily trips to Newark/Irvington New Jersey, spending over 10k on Heroin, and couldn’t even go anywhere unless I had at least 10 heroin bags on me to “keep me feeling well.” I became homeless, had to give up custody of my son to my parents, tried to go back to Princeton House inpatient two more times with failure after the first day both times, lived in abandon buildings in Camden new jersey, you name it I experienced it. I tried once more to go to inpatient, this time Carrier Clinic in Belle Mede new jersey, and then ended up in jail for legal charges in Pennsylvania. I then went to The Salvation Army in Trenton New Jersey, and am blessed to say that it is almost 6 months (6/21/2013) since I last used any drugs. I now live again with my parents and my child, work with my father in the public adjusting field, and want to do anything I can to make a difference for someone battling this deadly disease. Again, I strongly support your movements to try to change HIPPA.
Jackson, thank you so very much for not only coming forward with admitting to this insidious disease which affects thousands of individuals, but assisting everyone with speaking openly regarding same. I am extremely proud of you, as would Justin, for you standing tall and telling your story. If there is anything that I can ever do to assist you or support you in your future endeavors regarding remaining on a steadfast course, please do not hesitate to contact me. Always keep your head high, Jackson, and be proud of your wonderful accomplishments that you so much deserve. Our family is honored to have you speak at our benefit, and appreciate what you have done.
This is still too unreal to me. I’ve been thinking about Justin constantly, and occasionally he’s been in my dreams. I will never forget him, his sense of humor, his personality, everything about him. Every day I think of him, and I truly miss everything about him. I live every day of my life for him, and he will always be a part of me. Words cannot describe how amazing he was and still is in my eyes. He was always someone I looked up to. No matter what mood I was in he always put a smile on my face and could make me laugh instantaneously. Justin was more than just a cousin to me, he and Austin are my brothers, and even though he isn’t here physically I know he’s in my heart. I love you Justin, and I miss you more every day. And I know he’s smiling down on you Gregg, for everything you’ve done and still continue to do for him. Well all meet again some day. Until then, live your life for him. And do things he no longer has a chance to do. I know he’s smiling down on all of us and watching over us every day. He’s forever in my heart, and forever my brother.
Amanda, I only met you but a couple of times, but the way you phrased your emotions and sentiments regarding my phenomenal son Justin was most appropriate, from your heart and so true. Justin enlightened all of us, made us laugh, was compassionate and cared for everyone. I believe his goal was to make others happy when for some reason he was not happy within himself, and that is very giving. Amanda, by the way you expressed yourself, I can tell you are very intelligent and will succeed in whatever you put your mind to, which is what I have always told Justin and Austin. Thank you for commenting and being such a wonderful cousin to Justin, as he always appreciated and loved being with you.
Thank you, if you ever need anything I’m a phone call and a drive away, maybe sometime soon I’ll be able to come over with Austin for a weekend or something. You’re always in my prayers and I do believe you’re doing an incredible thing for Justin. I know for a fact he’s proud of you, and appreciates everything you’ve ever done and continue to do for him.
Thank you, Amanda, you are a sweetheart and very kind. Please come over anytime with Austin.
Over the past 16 years that I’ve had the pleasure of working with you, Gregg, you’ve always displayed a real caring and generosity to anyone in need, family, friend, colleague, even strangers. I will always remember your slogan, “There are no problems only solutions.” Many times over the years I’ve seen you come up with solutions to help so many people. Being of help to others is deeply embedded within you because now, even in the midst of such a heart-wrenching and horrific tragedy where others may have become isolated and hardened of heart, you, my friend, rise up to integrate solutions so that others’ children may be spared from this deadly killer. As you’ve been there for others in so many ways, I am here for you in any way I can be of help. You’ve always been a man who accomplishes what you set your sights on . If anyone can get these HIPAA laws amended, and as a result save many young adults live, it’s you. You’re compassion is a blessing to many. Love and peace to you, Gregg <3
Debbie, thank you very much for your kind words, as you have always been there for me in so many ways. Nothing can compare to what I and my family have been through, but I must stand steadfast to help everyone who is dependent on me, most especially my Austin, who I love so very much. He was always the very best brother, stood by Justin and would have done anything for him. Unfortunately, none of us had the ability to reign in Justin, not even the doctors who tried to help him. You are a tremendous friend and I always will appreciate you and what you have done for me.
Justin was my boyfriend, my best friend, and one of the most amazing people I have ever met. Words cannot express how much I miss and love him, and how surreal his loss still seems. Had there been a way to save him, I would have done so in a heartbeat. This being said, I fully support Gregg’s efforts and hope that changes to the HIPAA are made in order to prevent this tragedy from happening to other families. I know Justin is proud of the work that is being done on his behalf, as am I. Best of luck.
I love you, Justin.
-Michelle
Thank you, Michelle, for your deepest and truest sentiments. Justin loved you very much and missed you dearly when you were away. Although I always tried to soothe his innermost feelings and fears, the disease of addiction won out. You were in his heart every step of the way, as he was in yours, and for that I am grateful. We all miss my boy and love him more than life itself. I will continue to forge ahead and fight to save other lives since there was no control over this.
Gregg,
With just a few simple words – This website represents the voices unheard. Too many parents and family members are without a real voice, and the injustice is insufferable. Our country is changing, and as it moves forward at a remarkably fast pace, the voice of a parent becomes but a whisper. Please remain strong and focused and know that your charge is an important one and well supported.
Memories are the treasure of our past containing the map of the future.
Pam, what you have said couldn’t have been said any more eloquently. The voice of a parent does become a whisper, but it is my intention and goal to make it loud and boisterous for the recognition that this cause so badly deserves for our future. Thank you for always being there for my family as well as others.
Totally agree..You have given us a voice.
My name is Maureen Fitzpatrick. My daughter Erin is a drug addict. For years, we have tried to get her appropriate help only to be denied because of various privacy laws. When she was a young teen, she was able to decline health care that we thought were very, very important to her getting better. She was also allowed to deny us access to her drug test results. Because of this, she did not get the appropriate help that she needed when she needed it. I truly believe that had she not been allowed to decide her health care at age 15, that we would have been able to keep her from going down on the road of heroin addiction. It is a hellish road. No one should have to travel that road. Please, let’s change these laws. Let’s allow parents the right to help their children. Our children are dying. We must save them.
Maureen, I, my family, friends and everyone I have spoken to couldn’t agree with you more. I will continue the fight in order to prevent more tragedies and to stem the tide which has turned against not only our children, but the parents, as well. Thank you very much for reaching out to me.
Gregg:
This is a great website, and yet another way you are making a positive difference. I know you will have a productive meeting with Rob Andrews today. You continue to demonstrate the importance of turning Lemons into lemonade and giving all those affected a medium to help focus their attention and energy on a force for positive change.
I know you will keep up the great work. Stay well my friend the world needs you.
David
Thank you, my buddy, for reaching out to me, my family and being there for Justin and Austin. You, Pam and your family have always been great to us and I appreciate the value you have demonstrated and support and commitment to my cause to fight this epidemic and horrible disease. I know I can count on you, as you can do the same with me.
Amazing website and well done. Gregg, your efforts will bring change and I am sure save other lives. What a wonderful tribute to your son. I am glad to share in such a great cause.
Mindy
Thank you, Mindy, for always being there and supporting this cause in order to save the lives of our children who so desperately need us. I am hoping that we can move forward to change the legislation for others still struggling to survive.
Gregg: Please know my heartfelt sympathy is with you and call on me for support in any manner anytime. bobby
Thank you, Bobby, for being there and giving the commitment that you have demonstrated and for all your support. I very much appreciate that
An excellent website with lot of very useful information. We hope lot of people find this website and benefit from it. Since this site is based on personal experience and tragedy, this should bring home the points made.
Greg, we applaud you for starting and devoting yourself to this cause. It will definitely bring some positive change.
Sunita and Kumar, thank you very much for your commitment, support and encouragement. That is what I am trying to accomplish, positive change for everyone involved in the addiction process.
Gregg, good luck today with your meeting with Senator Bob Andrews! The web site looks fabulous, keep fighting the good fight. Justin would be very proud.
Thank you very much, Renee, for all that you have done for our family and the support you have exhibited throughout the past several months. I am sure that Justin would be proud of all of us.
Greg…. good luck today with your meeting. Let me know how you make it. Nice change up of the site as well my friend. Justin would be proud of his Dad..and as you know, we both never will stop this fight.!!!!!! Also, a real nice fundraiser on the 11th… I am proud to say I was there with 7 members of my family. Stay in touch Gregg…
Thank you very much, Andy, for all that you do and have done with Kaciescause.com. The thousands of people you are assisting and reaching are immeasurable and Kacie, I am sure, is extremely proud of what you have done in her name. We will both continue to fight on all fronts to save lives and prevent what is usually the inevitable through education and changing the HIPAA laws for those who are unable to help themselves. Be strong and thank you for all of your commitment and support.
Justin is my grandson and words cannot express how much I miss him, getting texts from him, facebook messaging from him to hearing his voice. I’m so glad I got to spend his last day with him. He was a joy to be with. He was happy, talkative, funny and in general we had a great afternoon together. I do hope something can be done to stop the terrible drug addiction going on today and that Gregg is successful in getting the HIPPA law changed so parents can help their children who are looking for help, by their telling their doctors about it, but are embarrassed to tell their parents of their addiction. The doctors knew and did nothing. Best of luck to getting the laws changed.
Thank you, Mom, for your true and important sentiments. I will continue to fight and move forward to help others like Justin avoid this terrible fate. No parent, grandparent, brother, sister, relative or friend and, most especially, addict or one with a mental disorder should ever have to experience what we have or how Justin felt. internally. We must all fight for this cause in Justin’s memory and honor, as he would want us to prevent this tragedy from occurring to others, and certainly would have wanted his life to be saved if this disease wasn’t so rampant. I loved my boy more than words could ever express and will always love him and have him in my heart forever. He was a wonderful son who put sunshine on everyone’s faces and love in everyone’s hearts.
This website is an amazing tribute, and Greg’s speech was very moving and compelling. I hope those people were listening because this truly is an epidemic, AND something we can change. Keep up the good work and spread the word. All it takes is a few good people passing information forward, and things can change.
Your loss is immeasurable, but your positive work on Justin’s behalf is the beginning of healing. Best of luck in this valiant endeavor.
-Dianne
Dianne, thank you very much for your positive feedback. I am trying to help other parents, families and addicts realize the epidemic and severity of the drug world in our country as well as apprising everyone of the necessity to alter the HIPAA regulations for the mentally disabled and addictive personalities.
Thank you,
Gregg
It’s inspiring tome that you are working so hard to help change things to prevent us losing other people to this insidious disease of addiction. Looking forward to working together to make a difference.
Thank you very much, Michael. I am looking forward to working with you as well to fight this deadly disease.
Congratulations to all involved in the fundraiser on 6/11! A great cause and one that we support fully here at Ag Conexus.